meaning of dreams family

What I remember is "getting friendly" with a man in front of a family(not sure if mine or his), then entering into some kind of ruin with people-men women children- outside some kind of creature trying to get in, then morning we put children into backpacks(they shrunk) went around sand pit fell over someone who said not with your first cousin. then was inside the house in the bathroom cleaning up a childs' feces that was in a child training potty, then washing some dishes in the toilet bowl with the feces. then I woke up. I can not find anything to explain this dream. Please help.